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Guide to Fisting – Bottom Edition

So, you want to take a fist.  You, like thousands of other pigs, are longing to feel the stretch of a paw in your hole.  We get it! Understand, this isn’t like taking a dick, you are going to have to work up to your first fist and while it will take some time, trust us, it’ll be worth it. 

First, be patient.  This is a journey, not a destination.  Enjoy each of the steps that work to expand your hole until you take your first paw.  To finally take your first fist, you will need to be vigilant and consistent in your practice, but In the end, all the effort will be worth it when that first fist slides in your hole. 

TOYS

Toys are going to be your friend.  You will always have them at hand, so your practice can be consistent.  The type and size of the toy is very important.  Be aware your eyes, at this point, can be bigger than your hole.  Need to ensure we start with toys we can actually take and let’s be honest good toys are expensive and we need them sized properly to help work on our gape.  It doesn’t do you any good to buy toys too large to take, while eventually you might be able to use them, we are working to stretch your hole now.

There are guys who love to ride toys, and to others this will be a means to an end.  So, starting with a normal sized dildo is always a good place.  You should know how experienced your hole is, how large a cock you can take, so use this as your starting point.  If you easily can take a thick 9” cock, get a toy that is slightly larger.  Here is where girth is going to come into play.  Our goal is width play at this point, not depth.  We are getting that hole stretched so you can take a paw, and using dildos that are larger in circumference are going to get us to our first fist.  Also, we recommend using Puppy Pads during toy play and for fisting.  They will limit the mess and make clean up easy.  They will also help down the line when you have your first Assgasm - a weird cum/piss combo that shoots from your cock, but its basically an orgasm.  Trust us, you’ll thank us!  We also recommend getting a waterproof fitted sheet.  There are expensive fuck sheets out there and some inexpensive ones on Amazon.  Highly recommended!

Warm Up:  We will caution you, be good to your hole and it will be good to you.  Always take time to warm your hole up.  Start with your fingers, or a “normal” size toy that you can easily take.  Ensure you use a lot of lube in your hole and on your toy.  Lube is relatively inexpensive, and we recommend liberal use at the start and during play.  It’ll keep your hole happy and make your playtime more fun.  Our The Lube is a great product to help when using your toys.  It mixes to a nice consistency for toy play, lasts up to two weeks without refrigeration and you’ll have it on hand for your first fisting session. 

If you read our blog post about cleaning out, which we highly recommend before toy play – but you do you, you know that your hole can be a bit tender with a bad clean.  Always listen to your body and hole, we are working to slowly grow our gape, which when done right can prevent tearing, fissures and agitation. 

Buying a Dildo:   There are many places to buy dildos or dildo shaped objects, as I am sure being a pig you already know.  At this point, it doesn’t matter if it is a soft or hard silicone.  What we want is to be able to actually get the toy in. 

We shared that consistency is key.  It does you no good to stretch your hole and then not play with it again for a couple weeks.  Why toys are so great, they - unlike hook-ups- are reliable and ready for when you have time.  We would recommend using your toys a couple times a week.  We will warn you, as you stretch, there can be some blood.  This is normal.  The main key being, some pink can be OK, but if you start seeing red, stop what you are doing and get an ice cube in your hole.  While uncomfortable, it will help close up the cells and curb the flow of blood.  Of course, if you are bleeding a lot and it won’t stop, seek medical attention.

Buying a Butt Plug:  Butt Plugs are also a great tool to help open you up.  We would say that they are a good progression to your hole expansion.  One nice thing with a butt plug, you can get it and keep it in for longer periods of time.  Part of working to get a good gape is allowing your hole time to adjust being stretched.  The longer we keep that stretch going, the better it is for our goal of taking a fist.  As with dildo’s, there are many places to buy them.  We would recommend getting a butt plug in platinum silicone.  Main point, they are more comfortable for longer term wear.  There are even some designed to specifically be worn for extended periods.

Taking that FIST

Self-Fisting:  So, if you are a lucky fucker and you are flexible enough to fist yourself, GOOD FOR YOU!  This is really an awesome way to start out and your own paw is always available.  We would share to go slow and work your way up to taking your own fist.  All the steps are the same as with a toy, although now you’ve progressed to your own fist in your hole.  This is a great way to take your first fist, but really, not everyone can do this.  So, if you can, enjoy it!

Fist-Fuck Hook-Ups:  So, you’ve been riding your toys, getting a good stretch and consistent gape.  Good for you!  You think you are ready for that hook-up to take your first paw, or at least try.  We highly recommend it, but we would also share, be honest with whomever you are hooking up with to where you are with taking a fist.  If they are an experienced FF Top or Vers, they may want to take time to help you stretch and work towards your first fist.  Altho, if you aren’t 100% honest with them, they will assume you can take a fist and be disappointed when they arrive to find that you aren’t able to take a fist.  Fisting has a great brotherhood, and many guys will be happy to help you in your journey, but others won’t.  Full disclosure on what they should expect will the hook-up enjoyable for all those involved.

Own your hole:  We cannot stress this enough.  It’s your hole, you should do what you want with it and listen to what it is telling you.  Even experienced tops can sometimes go too quickly to get that fist in, so communicating with your top during the session is key.  Fisting is more intimate than fucking.  It is usually a longer session, there are many nuances and stages to not only getting that fist in, but also working towards closed and open fist punches and many other wonderful ways to destroy a hole.  WOOFF!  Feedback to your top while you play will help them be a better top and allow you to maximize your enjoyment. 

Stretch before:  We highly recommend that you stretch your hole some before your playmate arrives.  Now, don’t go to town to the point where you won’t be able to play, that is just annoying.  But using a toy after you clean out to warm up your hole will help move things along and get you to that first fist.

Position:  You will quickly learn which way you like to take a fist.  Some guys are more open on all 4’s, other guys on their backs.  Really, it is listening to your body and asking your top when you play.  They will know which position is easier for them to get in and where you feel more open.  Your body will also tell you, one position will just feel better than the other.  As always, listen to your body.

Relax:  We get it, taking a big paw in your hole, while a desire and goal, can be a bit daunting.  Try to relax, and if you use them, poppers always help.  Your being relaxed is going to help with the progression to taking your first fist.  Also, when the top finally gets his fist in there the first time, your body is going to want to shit it out ASAP.  Again, take a breath and relax.  Get used to the feeling of that paw in your hole, your top should keep it there to allow you time to adjust.  Allow him to slowly come out.  He should add some lube and go back in – and yeah, we’d say if you are using poppers, now would be a good time to take a hit.

We also would caution about laughing and coughing while being fisted.  There are many times when we have shot a fist out of our hole coughing or because your witty top made a joke.  Not a bad thing, but also something to be aware of.

CONGRATS, you’ve worked your way up to your first fist!  Once you are done playing, use some of The Clean-Up and The Clean-Up Towel to remove the lube from your tops hands and your hole/body. 

RECAP:

  • Start Slow, using a lot of lube
    • The Lube is a great product for toy play and fisting
    • The Lube Bottle is the perfect way to mix The Lube and use during play
    • Puppy Pads will become your friend and limit the mess and capture any piss/cum from your play
    • Waterproof sheets are also a good option, there are some cheap ones on Amazon or you can get a fuck sheet from many kink/fetish sites
  • Warm up – allow your hole time to work up to new sizes in stretching during your play
  • Start with toys a bit larger than the biggest cock you can take, don’t let your eyes be bigger than your hole
  • Be honest with your FF hook-up that you haven’t taken a fist, allow them to decide if they want to train you. Your desire to take a fist is NOT the same as being able to take one
  • Relax – being stressed or tense just clenches your hole
  • Poppers – if you use these, then use them

The Clean-Up is the perfect companion for your toy play and fisting session.  It’ll speed up your clean and save wear on your hands and hole.  Less time cleaning, more time playing!

Leave comments about your first fisting experience below!

 

This blog does not provide medical advice, it is intended for informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Never ignore professional medical advice in seeking treatment because of something you have read on our site. If you think you may have a medical emergency, immediately call your doctor or dial 911.

6 comments

  • I actually got started in the fisting training using a Ray Diesel dildo. The circumference (very important word) was more than I could handle when I first bought it, but it had a nice tip that made entry easier. Bouncing on it, and some definite stretched feeling, I was able to finally take it to the base. Video. Head. Cleaner. That led to ordering other toys, each with a slightly larger circumference. The best ones are the cone shaped toys since they gradually stretch the hole as you sit on them. The bulk of my training came from bigger and bigger toys. When looking for your next toy, go for something maybe a half inch wider than a previous toy. Plugs are ok, but are only a brief stretch before they pop in.

    AztecDaddy
  • Hay all of you nasty FF out there.
    I’ve read all of the messages here and wanted to give my input about basic fisting and depth fisting too.
    My experience cums from almost 40 yrs of learning what is, possible to achieve and learning, to give both yourself (mind) and your body as a (w)hole, the neccessary time to adjust.
    I’ve had one doctor tell me; “the human body is an amazing machine and it can/will do incredible things that most people either don’t know or simply, don’t want to know!”
    Fisting your hole is/can be both very rewarding (being selfish of course)and extremely dangerous if done incorrectly. “TIME IS YOUR BEST FRIEND!”
    So, that being said;
    Learning new parts (nside/out) is crucial, to understand what works and WHAT DOESN’T!!!!!!
    Learning relaxing and breathing techniques are SO IMPORTANT and this is one of the most critical parts of fisting, believe me!!
    I’ve had things up my hole that are 15,16,17 and 18 inches circumference…… wow? When you get to this point, you will orgasm even before you get massively stretched..
    I also really love, depth really deep fisting or with some very long, deep toys that, everybody I’ve shown my toys to, gasp at what my hole can take…..
    I’ve had some very experienced ff tops/vers guys and some, completely, like “wtf” is wrong with me. I don’t play long with these types. I have total body orgasms now and they’re mind blowing!!!!! Verbal communication is km"key" to fisting, either with an experienced ff or teaching someone.
    I love getting fisted more than straight fucking. Finding someone to be with for a relationship is so difficult but, when I go to S.F., there’s no problem finding someone to play with.
    Learning the best way to properly clean out, is also extremely important because, if not done properly, you could expose both yourself and your playmate, so learn the best, safest and what it takes to get “cleaned out!”
    I’ve built my own clean out toys from using common plumbing parts and most are already smooth and rounded for the best way to get cleaned out. “YOU DON’T WANT TO END UP AT THE E.R. AND HAVE TO EXPLAIN WHY YOU’RE THERE, BECAUSE YOU’RE AN IDIOT-SO BE SAFE AND CAREFUL…..”
    Lube, is also a choice but, learning how to mix some common things in your lube, can make it much more enjoyable for you as the fistee bottom.
    Cornstarch, olive oil (real good) olive oil are some common ingredients I add to my lube but, mixing and finding what you like, will take some effort on your part. Time……..
    I had one guy, (med hands) stuff me nearly all the way to his shoulder and he still got his other hand all the way in me- fuck, that was fucking amazing to feel that good being stretched both deep and width, try it!!!!!! TIME…
    Remember, it’s taken me about 40 yrs to get to this point of being fisted and stretched but I want to experience more techniques to get both, depth and width.
    “Remember:
    Time-
    Breathing-
    Relaxing-
    Lube-
    Communication-
    Clean out techniques-
    Be safe-
    Listen to your BODY-
    Be with someone who listens too-
    Don’t do something that you’re not sure/safe with-
    Last but not least; make sure and prepare for clean up, what ever happens!!!!!!!!!
    “THEN, ENJOY GETTING STUFFED, FISTED DEEP, MAYBE VERY DEEP AND ENJOY THE VERY INTIMATE FEELINGS OF HAVING YOUR ROSEBUD PLAYED WITH…………

    Bugzzy the Wabbitt
  • A technique you can employ to relax is to start the relaxing process not with your hole as you may be focusing to strongly on it to relax. Start w/your toes, then feet, ankles, etc. This combined w/a breathing technique of Breathe in/push out your sphincter and Breathe out/relax your sphincter.

    Dietrich
  • I’m commenting on behalf of those whose interest is in DEEP fisting. If you’re into going DEEP, you already know this, but the instructions for cleaning here are for the “fist” deep players, not the “arm” deep. So if it’s your intention to learn to take it DEEP, get ready for a long haul and learn early about the cleaning regimen for cleaning DEEP.
    If you want to clean DEEP, either get an enema bag, enema bucket, or my preference, an 18" colonic tube. Enema bags hold about a half gallon of water, and instead of just filling and rinsing the rectum, like instructions are here, you need to flush out much deeper, through the sigmoid and transverse colon. For starters, however, eat light the day before. Really light, which makes the process much easier. And preferably, wait until after 3 PM to clean out, as most of the prior day’s consumption will have exited on its own by then.
    As with the instructions, lay on your back or left side with the enema bag full, preferably with slightly warm water, so you can feel how much and where it is going in. And after a quick, shallow rinse of the rectum, allow the entire enema bag to empty into your gut. This will FILL YOU UP. If you’ve never done this, and your belly will be very, very full. Get to the toilet and release. It can take a while for it all to come out, so be patient. Gently massaging the abdomen can help and feel really nice as well. Repeat 2-3 times; it will take over an hour. You may feel a bit sore, but that will go away shortly. Same as before, just before play, do one last quick rinse. Highly recommended: Trust: The Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing. Everything you EVER wanted to know.
    Have FUN!! And be CAREFUL. DEEP play is a whole different game than just taking a fist into the rectum, and can be dangerous if not done VERY slowly and carefully.

    Mike
  • Victor,
    Thanks for your comment. It is a common misconception that fisting will cause the hole to lose its elasticity and cause incontinence. This isn’t the case. While fisting will stretch your hole, and yes it will be a larger opening than before over time and consistent fisting, just like regularly being fucked by a large penis, it will not lead to incontinence! We have been fisting for years, as have our friends, and it is not something that will happen. It’s an urban myth. As for the farting after sex with your husband, it most likely came from the air being pushed farther into your GI canal. This can happen when you fist, but we fisters generally like this noise coming from our holes.

    If you are looking to get into fisting, we would recommend getting The Lube, The Lube Bottle and some The Clean-Up to start. Make sure to take it slow and listen to your body. We wish you all the best.

    FFäusten

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